About
you. New to yoga, a devoted student, or somewhere in between? Welcome!
I created this site to share with you what I've learned in 14 years as a Kripalu yoga teacher -- and yogi for longer
than that -- wherever you are in your journey to better health in body and mind through the regular practice of yoga.
Whatever your level of physical fitness, you can practice yoga and experience its benefits.
In fact, Kripalu Yoga encourages you to personalize your practice, even within
a group class, always adapting and adjusting postures to how you are on any given day. When you relax into your
yoga, respecting the wisdom of your own body, something quite complex and wonderful happens. You start to feel confident
and easy in your skin, perhaps for the first time. The notion that you have to 'do' all the postures or keep up with
the class, the idea of yoga-as-performance, just slips away. You are creating a practice
for you and you alone. When this happens, you begin to deliberately cultivate 'prana' or the life force
within you, expressing itself in a unique way.
Yogi master, B.K.S. Iyengar puts is best: "Yoga
must be experienced." In other words, despite the reams of information written about yoga, it can only be described up
to a point. Yet yogis (anyone with a regular yoga practice) do report many of the same benefits and the history of collective
experience is long!. Maybe our digestion improves or we start to sleep better. Maybe we notice our bodies becoming
more flexible, stronger, our clothes fit better. We may become noticeably more cheerful as the usual ups and downs of
life smooth out. We start to appreciate the good small things of life and let go of the stuff we can't change.
Our relationships get better. We make better choices in what we eat and how we spend our time. We are happier!
I wouldn't be mentioning these to you if I hadn't experienced them myself!
How
to make the most of your yoga? Get yourself a good mat, 1/4" thick, clothes you can move easily in. Look
for a teacher who has had at least a 200-hour training at a school certified by Yoga Alliance. Above all, keep an open mind, be willing to be a beginner,
as we all are at something, every single day of our lives.
About me. Like a lot of people, I sampled yoga in the 1970s when
it first became better known in the West. For a variety of reasons, it didn't take hold then, but I got another chance
in my early 50s when a Kripalu teacher began to offer classes near my home. After about a month,
I started to notice little incremental changes, first in a lessening of mood-swings that I'd been living with through peri-menopause.
I began to respond to the challenges of my small business as a public relations consultant and writer more calmly and creatively.
I started walking more regularly and reduced my intake of alcohol. I didn't get my 'usual' summer cold. Wow!
Something was going on.
In 1998, after I had been practicing Kripalu yoga for about three years, I found
myself at a cross-roads in my 11-year-old business, and eager for a change. My teacher had brought a group of her students,
including me, up to the Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health in Stockbridge, Mass,
for a weekend. Bingo! I knew what I was going to do. The next teacher training was coming up and I enrolled.
Yes, it really was that fast!
Upon graduation, I opened a small studio in Hoboken called 11th and Yoga and
began teaching weekly group classes, as well as prenatal yoga workshops. I launched a weekly class at Jersey City Medical
Center and it was soon packed with staffers in scrubs. From those beginnings, I branched out into
other hospitals, churches and synagogues and a senior center. In 2003, I moved to South Florida and have been teaching
in a variety of private and public fitness facilities since. Current venues/clients include Kula Yoga Shala (Jupiter),
Loggerhead Fitness (Juno Beach), Sandpoint Bay (Tequesta), and Ocean Trails (Jupiter, in season). I am certified also
in Chair Yoga, Thai Yoga Bodywork and Laughter Yoga. I have an MA in English from Montclair State University, and am
a published author and blogger. I am also grandmother of five potential yogis.
About Kripalu Yoga. Called 'meditation in motion,' Kripalu Yoga helps you find your own
yoga. I will always encourage
you to practice at your own pace, respecting your strengths and limitations, making this a very easy way to take yoga into
your life. Practiced regularly,
Kripalu yoga is nothing less than a revolutionary tool for more conscious, healthy living. I specialize in short routines
you can practice on your own, upon waking, before bedtime, or whenever you have 10 or 15 minutes during the day. While
I love the classroom, my real goal is to make yoga indispensible for my students,
which is why my cards says Yoga For Life.
Created by a mentor and colleague of mine, Lakshmi
Voelker, Chair Yoga translates many familiar
yoga postures to the seated position. This makes Chair Yoga ideal for anyone with compromised mobility, including people
who cannot easily use a mat on the floor, including those recovering from injury or illness. Chair Yoga is excellent
when you're traveling or for short breaks at your desk. A complete practice in and of itself.
Please
sample my group Kripalu classes at Loggerhead Fitness in Juno Beach, at Kula Yoga Shala, Jupiter, or make an appointment for a private class in your home. Here's my phone number: 561-625-8753
First, it is amazing to me that a respected medium like the New York Times Magazine would illustrate
its article with photographs showing people performing unsafe, irresponsible postures and calling them yoga. Second,
although there is no doubt that people can injure themselves practicing yoga, there is not more risk incurred than in many
sports, or frankly, in driving a car or crossing the street to visit your doctor. Sure sensationalism sells, but a much
more balanced comparison would have been to show the relatively small number of emergency room visits resulting from a yoga
'accident' in relation to those incurred running marathons, biking, or indeed, in the hospital environment.
Life is risk. The benefits of investing in a mind-body discipline like yoga (or Tai Chi or pilates) vastly outweigh
the chance of injury. Any yoga instructor worth his/her calling (and certification) will remind students to practice safely,
within the students' ability, degree of fitness and flexibility. Yoga is not for everybody or every body.
To my students, I say this: if you are ever in a class where you are being pushed to perform postures that feel wrong to you,
simply get up, roll up your mat and walk out. That simple act of self-respect is the best yoga (union of mind, body
and spirit) lesson you'll ever get.
Yoga is great for kids and it makes you feel like one, even if
that wasn't exactly in your lesson plan! In fact, when I started a new class for K-5 at the Weiss School, I quickly realized
that it was best to be flexible about the lesson plan and go with the flow. I always tell my adult students that yoga
is not competitive. Well, try that with children! They love nothing more than to show you what they can do and
challenge each other to contests about who can hold a particular pose the longest. They love to fall out of a pose yelling
'timber!' and find ways to move within poses. So far, we have done posture flows to reggae, Jason Mraz and Black Eyed
Peas. They also like Krishna Das' chanting and classical music. We had three periods of silence: at the beginning of
the class, during one long Warrior sequence requiring concentration, and during corpse pose when I challenged them to be the
most relaxed, heavy bodies they can be.
Kula Yoga Shala: A New Yoga Community I Just Joined
I
really have to thank yogi and chant artist, David Newman (Durga Das) for my introduction to Kula Yoga Shala in Jupiter. If he hadn't chosen it for a recent performance venue, I might not have found my way to this dedicated
yoga studio, tucked behind corporate office space on Toney Penna. As soon as I made my way along the stepping stones
through a lovely garden and into the beautiful boutique space, I felt at home. It was almost as if I had traveled back
in time and space to the Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health where I took my yoga teacher training and began the transformation from promotional/speech writer to yoga teacher.
A few weeks later, I took a Kundalini
class at KYS with Kim Depasquale and met founder and ceo, Scott Feinberg. He was interested in adding a Kripalu class
and before we long we were sitting down to talk about my joining the community. On October 15, I start teaching a 90-minute
Kripalu class at Kula Yoga Shala, Wednesdays 1-2:30 pm.
Like all my classes, this will welcome all levels, with warm ups and postures accessible to all, and moderate challenges for
the more experienced yogi. Kripalu Yoga, as I have written elsewhere in these pages, is about finding your inner yoga
teacher guided by the wisdom of your own body and your experience within the context of the Kripalu method: meditation, pranayama
(breathwork), warm ups and posture sequencing.
Kula
Yoga Shala is an unusual business model in that all classes are supported by donation. The key to a sustainable business
based on donations is a strong community of instructors and students. This is what we are all working to build at Kula
Yoga Shala. Teachers offer their unconditional best to all who come to their classes; students offer fair compensation
for the value they are receiving from the class. I'll let Scott tell you more about how this works.
You'll still be able to find me at
my Tuesday and Thursday schedule at Loggerhead Fitness in Juno Beach. I hope you will also join me and a talented group of yoga teachers at Kula Yoga Shala.
Starting tomorrow, I pledge to take as many yoga classes as I can during
the month of June as part of Karma Krew's Peace by Peace campaign. When you sponsor me, you help me improve my skills as a yoga teacher and the money goes to raising the
awareness of yoga in under-served populations like children in crisis, the incarcerated, women's shelters, and the like.
The debate about whether or not Sanskrit names for yoga postures
are necessary in the classroom heated up lately with the New York Times item on a popular teacher (and former model) named
Tara Stiles. She doesn't. In fact, Ms Stiles prefers to focus on the physical aspects of yoga and leaves what many teachers
feel is the essential spiritual core of the practice out of the picture entirely. Apparently, students who are
filling her New York City classes agree with her approach. While yoga was originally developed about 5,000 years ago to prepare
one for meditation, it has -- like all worthwhile teachings must -- mutated into a practice for people living 21st century
lives with stresses unknown in the past. Above all, yoga has proven itself flexible, like the people who practice it
regularly. Sanskrit, chanting, incense, can turn many a class into a quasi-religious retreat. Whatever makes yoga
more accessible to more people belongs in the mix.
I've
been teaching Kripalu Yoga for nearly 13 years, and my definition of what it is and how it differs from other schools keeps
changing. Last night at dinner with friends, I heard myself say that it is a customized approach where the student is
in charge with the instructor playing more of a partner role. Close, but I had to hand it to Devarshi Steven Hartman,
Dean of the Kripalu School of Yoga for really getting to the essence.
“Our methodology is inquiry-based, which means that a person’s teacher
is their own body, their own experience of the asana, the way their breath moves, how micro-movements change the pose.It’s an empowering approach.The Kripalu approach to yoga awakens people to their own yoga.It doesn’t focus on the ‘right’ way to do something. He's quoted in the most recent catalog.
To get your copy, visit www.kripalu.org.
When Michelle Obama does yoga as part of her
recent President’s Council on Fitness initiative, you know yoga has gone mainstream. In the 15 years I’ve
been a practitioner (including the last 12 as a Kripalu Yoga-certified instructor), I’ve seen yoga grow from the culture of the ashram, dependent on the guru-disciple relationship,
to a billion dollar industry of conferences, workshops, star yogis, fashion clothing, DVDs, books and the like. Pick
up a copy of Yoga Journal and the cover will likely feature a well-toned yogi in spandex performing one of the more difficult
postures. I love YJ for the useful articles and professional advice I usually find there, but I wonder how many people
get turned off by those daunting covers.
“I can’t
do yoga; I’m too inflexible.” If I had a dime for everyone who says this when they discover what I do…
The reality is, people who sit in chairs most of the time (and that’s nearly everyone in the West) are likely to be
inflexible, and not just in the body. My Burmese grandmother grew up sitting on the floor, with her legs crossed yogi-style
or hunkered down, with her arms wrapped around her knees. In her eighties, she had the body of a much younger person,
was up with the dawn to meditate, and active all day long. She didn’t do frailty.
The sedentary lifestyle of our desk-bound, television-addicted population reinforces more of the same behaviors.
So the very idea of getting down on a yoga mat starts to sound more and more impossible. But yoga has been evolving
in other ways that open up its tangible benefits to more of the population, particularly older people who want to maintain
good health, preserve their independence, and forestall the so-called diseases of aging. It is no accident that some
of the greatest yogi masters are robust well into their 80’s and beyond.
In July, I became certified in Chair Yoga, a form that adapts many classic yoga postures to the seated position
and makes the benefits of yoga available to a much larger population including older adults. Chair Yoga, as developed by Lakshmi Voelker who has devoted most of her life and career to yoga, delivers the benefits of yoga,
including flexibility, strength, improved circulation, and mental focus, to anyone able to sit in a chair, including those
in wheelchairs. In her three and a half day workshop at Discovery Yoga in St. Augustine, Florida, 23 eager students — yoga instructors, physical therapists, Reiki masters and others —
learned seated variations of postures like Mountain (Tadasana), Half Moon (Ardha Chandrasana), Tree (Vrkshana) and the
Warriors at varying levels of challenge. We learned how to add 1- and 2-lb. weights to increase the fitness
challenge. And we experimented with double chair and partner-assisted postures. We were encouraged to replace
some or all of our personal practice with chair yoga to improve our skills as instructors. The biggest surprise was
not how well these postures could be adapted for the chair, but how physically challenging they are, even for the young
and fit.
Even if you have a yoga practice and/or other fitness
routine, there are times when mat practice is not feasible. You can practice chair yoga at your desk at home or work,
on the train/plane/bus or in a car (not while driving!) If you are recovering from an illness or injury, chair yoga
can help you resume your normal fitness activities sooner. You can even do chair yoga while you’re watching television.
Don’t just sit there!
The Dalai Lama is baffled by the
Western concept of low self-esteem. It does not exist in the Tibetan Buddhist culture, and yet it is the root of much mental anguish here in the weathy
nations of the West. It may be that self-esteem is a by-product of a competitive, upwardly striving culture where we
are appreciated only for what we achieve or produce, rathen than for who we are. Says Marianne Williamson: Love is what we are born
with. Fear is what we have learned here. The spiritual journey is the unlearning of fear and the acceptance of love back
into our hearts.
A
regular practice of yoga is one of the ways back to our essential nature, to the love we are born with. We don't have
to be 'good' at it because we already are good at being human. In my classes, I invite students to let go of body concept,
who is doing what around them and any preconceived notions of what they 'should' be doing there or getting out of their practice.
We focus on the moment, accepting what manifests, the possibility of change and growth. We are relearning, step by step, to
love ourselves once again.
Yin yoga is the antithesis of what most Americans are practicing
these days in gyms and health clubs; it's slow-paced, and the postures are held for much longer than most workout style,
that is yang, yoga permits. When you are tired or recovering from illness, yin could be the right choice. Essentially,
in yin yoga the focus is on gently stretching connective tissue -- joints, ligaments, the fascia -- rather than working the
muscles. In fact, once you settle into a pose, you relax and breathe deeply as you hold. It's meditative and
calming. For much more on this other side of yoga (yin-yang), see Paul Grilley, one of the most enthusiastic proponents of this practice.
Last weekend, Howard and I became Certified Laughter Yoga Leaders in
a two-day workshop in Miami led by Sebastien Gendry, the founder/director of the American School of Laughter Yoga. If
anyone had told me I could sit in a circle with a group of strangers and laugh for no reason at all, I would have ... well,
laughed at the very idea. But that is exactly what we did.
I have a theory about how this works that isn't exactly on the curriculum, and it has to do with language
and/or sound linked to gesture. Our brains are crammed fully of memories and sense impressions we aren't even aware
of until something calls it up, e.g. Proust's Madeline. So just hearing Ho-Ho-Ha-Ha-Ha repeated
with enthusiasm and forcing your face into a smile can trigger the laugh response. After that, you're off and running.
Of course, it doesn't hurt that everyone around you is doing the same thing, because as you know, laughter is contagious
among social animals like us.
If this intrigues you, here's an opportunity: Next Wednesday and every Wednesday thereafter at 7:30 am, come join the new Laughter Club at Jupiter Beach, just South of the fishing
pier. We'll breathe, clap and laugh together for about 30 minutes. Then, we'll probably take a walk or
swim, and you're welcome to join us. No charge. Laughter Clubs, thousands of them in some 50 countries, are
all free as a community service. Making the world a better place one guffaw at a time?
Facebook keeps delivering old friends to my virtual door, and sometimes they
come bearing gifts like this one: Meditation Oasis (Thanks, Victoria Fann!). Funny thing is -- since I am both practitioner
and teacher of Kripalu Yoga -- I've yet to make meditation a part of my day athough given the opportunity, e.g. in a group,
I love it! So, the seed has been planted and just needs some watering. When I'm driving up to my class at
Re-Flexions (Gold's Gym in Jupiter), I often pop into Stephen Cope's CD from his book The Wisdom of Yoga and listen
to him read two chapters about working with new meditators. In Chapter One, he talks about the Noble Failure, that is,
the realization that we cannot still the mind or fix it on an object, in this case, the breath, for more than a nanosecond.
But apparently, with diligent practice, we discover that we can start to witness 'puppy mind' if only for a moment
at a time. I recommend both the book and the website for those of you, like me, who really want to learn how to meditate.
I consider myself musical although I've never really mastered a musical
instrument despite lessons in piano (as a child), once owning and fooling around with a guitar (as a young mother), and taking
some voice lessons a few years ago. I'm certainly musical by association in the sense that my spouse plays piano
well, even professionally sometimes, and so I'm around music a lot. His partner comes over and they rehearse stuff,
just for fun and so they will be ready for the next gig that comes up. And I like to sing, too, despite a rather narrow
range. Now I've decided to learn the electric bass so I can accompany him and his partner.
What does this have to do with yoga? More than meets the eye. For one
thing, the way I use my yoga practice is to teach myself to be present for everything that comes along and accept it as it
is. Moment to moment presence, even with limited success, is both humbling and exhilarating. Learning more challenging
yoga postures can fulfill me in this way, and I find some of that presence in learning to play a new instrument:
it's the now, and very powerful for that reason (as Eckhardt Tolle wrote). I find that it's impossible
to be distracted while making music, and getting better at it will probably only enhance that focus. You're
reading notes, you're attempting to produce melody and rhythm, you have to pay attention to the way you use your hands,
how you hold the instrument, the posture you assume in relationship to the instrument; everything happens at once.
After enough practice, this all becomes second nature. Not unlike the fluidity with which more adept yogis can flow
into several variations of surya namaskar without having to think. In either case, you are connecting to a pattern or
rhythm embedded in the universe, just waiting to be discovered ... by you. That makes it worthwhile, in and of
itself.
Students are often surprised by the instruction to notice, notice breath, notice
sensation, notice thoughts. But the act of noticing is more powerful than most of us imagine, even for people with a
mature spiritual practice of one sort or another. For me, noticing is a way of pausing, stepping back or out of the
stream of one thing following another that makes up life, and appreciating each moment as it happens.
When you notice your breath, you can get a good reading of your emotional state and,
by changing your breath, deepening and slowing it down, for example, you change your emotions. Try this the next time
you get angry or upset.
Noticing sensations in
the body is rewarding in and of itself because it helps you appreciate what an amazingly complex organism you are, how respiration,
digestion, the behavior of hormones, are happening simultaneously with no help from you. And with some practice in noticing,
you may also develop a refined sense of when something is not quite right, and address and possibly prevent it from developing
into a more obvious symptom.
Noticing thoughts is the
first step in learning how to disidentify with them, possibly the most important spiritual practice we humans can adopt.
In noticing how our minds work, what kinds of things come up all the time, we begin to free ourselves from conditioned and
habitual patterns of consciousness. We become calmer, certainly, but also more aware, clearer, creative, kinder, more
loving, and more in touch with our true self.
Yoga, says Patanjali, author of the yoga sutra, is to "still
the patterns of consciousness." All schools of meditation aim at the same goal. Noticing is a practice in
and of itself, and you don't need a meditation cushion or special place and time to do it. It's available right
now.
In August, my spouse and I were at Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health
for a weekend. We've come to think of Kripalu as a spiritual home, a place where we can let it all hang out, do
lots of yoga with great teachers, learn some new practices, meditate, dance, and just be quiet together. But on that
weekend, we were in for a surprise, when in the middle of our own workshop on deep relaxation, we heard repeated peals of
infectious laughter from the next room.
Turns out
we were next door to a workshop on Laughter Yoga, a technique developed in 1995 by Dr. Madan Kataria and his wife, Madhuri
Kataria. The idea arose from an article written by Dr. Kataria on the health benefits of llaughgter. He started
the first Laughter Yoga Club in Mumbai, India. Although the first club disbanded, Dr. Kataria continued his research
and that simulated laughter provides the same benefits -- releasing chemicals that reduce stress and lower blood pressure
-- as spontaneous laughter. There are now 6,000
Laughter Yoga Clubs worldwide in 60 countries. Check out this You Tube video with John Cleese and see if you can keep a straight
face.
Shopping for some mala beads -- all the better to do Mantra Meditation -- I stumbled on YogaBasics and immediately signed up for the free membership and newsletter. High production values and
lots of free stuff, even at the Basic membership level. Particularly like the sequencing of postures accompanied by
photographs. Check it out and let me know what you think.
(BTW, I bought rosewood
malas, an 108 strand. Last night, I led a mantra meditation for the first time, and my Spiritual Circle loved it.
Some of us went somewhere we were not eager to return from. Hmmm.)
Yoga is turning up in some surprising places, not the least of which
is the Beth Israel Medical Center in New York City, courtesy of a large grant from designer Donna Karan who has funded a year-long experiment in alternative
therapies including yoga in honor of her late husband and partner, Stephen Weiss, who died of the disease at age 61.
We'll see more of this in the future, which is good news for all of us, yoga students and teachers, and everyone who is
yet to be exposed to the wonderful tool for healing and skillful living.
This week, I'm preparing to do a workshop on managing stress in difficult
times, and I got to thinking about stress, just what it is (and isn't), and whether we can really manage it. I wanted
a good definition and found this from The American Institute of Stress: "because it is such a highly subjective phenomenon [stress] defies
definition." In other words, one person's stress could be another's interesting challenge.
What most people recognize is that our bodies respond in a predictable way to a change in our world, real
or imagined, with a flood of hormones that prepare us to fight or flee. Sometimes, this heightened state is just what we need to take appropriate action.
Indeed, we might not have survived as a species without it. But often, it is an over-reaction that takes a toll on our
bodies. We might call this distress and it can lead to all kinds of problems, premature aging among
them.
Practitioners of hatha yoga -- the postures that have become synonymous with yoga
in the West -- find that purposely stressing the muscles and skeletal system with weight-bearing postures actually
strengthens them, which is one reason yoga improves our bodies. Body builders work out with weights to the
same end. So clearly, stress has its uses.
The view I prefer is to accept stress
as part of life, a response to inevitable change. Reflecting on the circumstances that make you feel distressed -- racing
pulse, shallow breaths, sweating -- can be your best preparation in managing stress. A few deep, mindful breaths
into the belly can help you find a center, a space within, from which to consider the circumstances more calmly. If
action can be taken that could produce a desired result, you can alleviate stress by taking a first step.
If your are facing circumstances beyond your control, the best, most skillful way is to let it go and move on. As in
yoga itself, practice trumps theory any day.
I'm probably not the only person who is thinking about living more
frugally and simply these days. It feels like the yogic thing to do to respond to unfolding realities. So, here's
an item about stuff from a cool blog I discovered: On Simplicity
High on my list are books about yoga that I couldn't
resist at the time and have only skimmed. I have quite a library in case you you're interested. I am also
a sucker for yoga accessories. Anyone need a slightly used meditation cushion? Anyway, enjoy the site. It
will make you think.
Use
to be when the going got tough, the tough went shopping. Today, they're likely to choose yoga to get them through
the rough spots of life (see below). Ancient tool for skillful living as relevant today as ever.
Brent Kessel, the president of Abacus Wealth Partners, thinks yoga offers some crucial lessons. Mr. Kessel,
a money manager and financial planner in Los Angeles who is a longtime yogi himself, noted that most people try to get rid
of their fear of the markets through some kind of external action, like selling.
“This is where yoga comes
in,” he said. “It’s the practice of breathing through discomfort. You intentionally put your body in postures
that are right at the edge of discomfort and then cultivate the ability to stay there. You tend to find it passes if you
give it time, but instead we rush to the Internet to trade on our portfolios.”
Occasionally, I'll focus on a particular posture here or steer you to
some information that will nourish your practice of yoga. Whenever possible, I'll include links so you can explore resources
more deeply. I think of my yoga teaching as a two-way conversation between me and my students, so feel free to email
me (yogimarika@gmail.com) with questions or comments. As Rodgers and Hammerstein put is so well, "As a teacher
I've been learning..."